tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7914023805467524047.post8617574257851039309..comments2023-04-03T08:42:02.315-07:00Comments on Seeing Race: WTF??Lady Instructorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16107564833265583418noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7914023805467524047.post-1513523563088981952010-08-26T20:14:24.888-07:002010-08-26T20:14:24.888-07:00I don't view the comments as blame-the-victim,...I don't view the comments as blame-the-victim, which would be abhorrent. My last sentence was a paraphrase designed to put the researcher's message into clearer language. <br /><br />I asked the researcher: Considering these findings, what could women do to protect themselves?<br /><br />She answered the question with a simple answer: Send signals that can still be interpreted correctly through a boozy haze. <br /><br />What is your answer? Is it "Nothing. Do whatever you want"?<br /><br />This whole debate raises a big question: Where's the line where advice about caution ends and blame-the-victim begin? <br /><br />-Randy DotingaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7914023805467524047.post-62336825982006221272010-08-25T06:27:36.926-07:002010-08-25T06:27:36.926-07:00Randy,
Yes, I agree it's not you I should be ...Randy,<br /><br />Yes, I agree it's not you I should be angry at, since you didn't say it. But it is a rather egregious thing to say - I was just really surprised at Dr. Fromme's statement. On reflection, I'll edit the post to place blame where it belongs.Lady Instructorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16107564833265583418noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7914023805467524047.post-48369877194233433852010-08-23T19:55:44.014-07:002010-08-23T19:55:44.014-07:00So I should stop quoting people when they say some...So I should stop quoting people when they say something quotable?<br /><br />-- Randy Dotinga (author of the story)Randy Dotingahttp://www.msnbc.comnoreply@blogger.com